“Special like stars” – the journey of Sitaara crafts

Sitaara has been a journey like no other. A journey of two daughters and two mothers, and how, through helping their daughters stand independent, the mothers also gained independence and a deeper sense of purpose. I write this on behalf of myself and my partner-in-crime and now good friend Divya.

We together interviewed my daughter Tarini, 14 and Divya’s daughter Muskaan, 16, both children with special needs, about Sitaara. ‘Sitaara Crafts’ was launched with the intent of becoming a platform for children with disability to showcase their crafts, and took shape on 17 January, 2022 with the launch of its Instagram page. Through the months, it brought us so much joy, many achievements, some heartbreaks, lots of learning, and huge aspirations in terms of the road ahead for Sitaara. We hope you will share their story widely.

Q: So how did Sitaara come about?
Tarini: I had been asking my parents for some time to help me start an initiative as I was bored in COVID. I wanted to do something for other kids with disability. My mom agreed to support me, and she suggested the name “Sitaara” because it means star, or starlight, and my own name is so much like it. She chose the name “Sitaara” simply because it implies that all children with special needs are special like stars. My younger brother, Aadyant, 11 years, designed our logo. My great grandmother was born on 17 January, and we decided to launch on the auspicious day of her birth anniversary. We were soon joined by Muskaan. Muskaan and I were excited to get our stickers and visiting cards printed!

Q: Thank you. That’s interesting. What all does Sitaara showcase? What are your bestsellers and how did this evolve?
Muskaan: We try making crafts from waste or recycled materials. We want to make cloth totes fashionable for people. I have decorated so many white tote bags which have been a great hit on different festivals. My mom has scraps of cloth which we repurpose into small totes which people have loved to carry their books in!

Our “colored” totes, ideal for carrying books and other knick-knacks, have been a big hit!

Tarini: We also make jute coiled coasters on cut outs of old cardboard. These have been our bestsellers too. Also, when we receive an order, we use only recycled packaging – my mom has a ton of old Amazon and Myntra packets which we decorate and paint on to make them look different. We also make newspaper bags and paint them for our exhibitions.

Jute coiled coasters! They are all made on recycled cardboard pieces

Q: Wonderful. So tell us about your experience selling on Instagram, and also exhibitions. What challenges did you face?
Tarini: Selling through Instagram has been a wonderful experience. It is exciting to get orders. We have shipped to 20 states and 2 UTs in only the last one year. We use speed post which is economical and reliable. We have had hardly any cases when a packet did not reach, and even then, it comes back to us. On the challenges through social media, there are cases where people have canceled orders after we shipped, and 1-2 rare cases when they were not satisfied with the quality. So, we now try as much as possible to take advance payments because we now have a fair idea of shipping costs to almost all states! For the cases they were unhappy, we simply refunded. We want all our customers to be happy.

Our ‘Diwali’ edit

Muskaan: Our first exhibit was in October at my house society grounds. I felt so excited when our totes were picked up so fast, it was like they were flying off the table! At exhibitions we get to interact with people and tell them about us. But then exhibitions can get tiring and you need to stand for long so we try and choose wisely which ones Sitaara will take part in, and our moms help us decide.

Sitaara’s first exhibition in October 2022
The exhibit had totes and other crafts flying off the table! We used newspaper painted bags

Q: Your experience in both selling through IG and directly sounds awesome, that too at such a young age. Tell us what you think your biggest achievement is, so far?
Tarini: I think the fact that we have such a large and satisfied clientele all over India already.
Muskaan: That we got more than 150 orders, many of them repeat orders, in our very first year.

Sitaara’s first collection this year, called “Basant” marked the new year and the onset of spring

Q: Do you have other children collaborators too? How does one collaborate?
Muskaan: We have another young adult named Sunny who is hearing impaired. Bhaiya makes beautiful rakhis, origami products, and envelopes. We have a classmate Harshita who makes amazing hand-made rakhis and painted dupattas. We are open to more children and young adults with disability joining hands with us. They can simply send us pictures of their work, which we upload. When there is a sale, we arrange to collect and deliver the products. We then pay them either immediately or month end.

Rakhis (symbols of love between brothers and sisters) by our child collaborators were a hit

Q: So how is the work divided between you two?
Tarini: I take care of the social media marketing, I enjoy interacting with customers online. Where I have a doubt about what to reply, I ask mom. But I love designing too, whenever I can.

Tarini busy block printing bags

Muskaan: I paint and decorate the pouches and totes, which mom helps get stitched. I have also created and decorated bookmarks, tags and envelopes in my art classes for Sitaara. Tarini too creates things whenever she feels like, although her main job is marketing and for me it’s design, so our jobs are cut out.

Muskaan making a beautiful gift tag

Q: That’s super. We wish you both great luck as you move ahead. Any exciting plans for 2023?
Tarini: We also have special collections for each festival. Right now we have a cute Valentine’s collection of earthy kulhars (clay pots you have tea in) and painted glass jars filled with candy. We got these kulhars all the way from Jaipur on our holiday in early January. Whenever we had tea, we saved a kulhar to bring home. We made a hole in them and they can now grow plants. We love it when we reuse something instead of throwing it. It makes us feel important.

The recycled corner

Muskaan: Thank you. We are excitedly looking at opportunities for exhibitions, and also keep trying for a collaboration and doing hands on work with some of the bigger NGOs. We would love to go there, spend time with people with disability, and help them. We are very excited to get an opportunity to showcase Sitaara on Satviki’, the SpecialSaathi online shop where many autistic kids are getting an opportunity to display their crafts. SpecialSaathi is a community for autistic kids’ parents. We hope we will be able to bring our products to more people who will enjoy them. Do help us spread the word.

Some of our latest products on Satviki

Thank you Muskaan and Tarini. Wish you all the best as you try and reach further for the stars. God Bless!

Hi I’m Tarini with mum Rashi. Here we are learning block printing from a neighbourhood aunt
Hi! I’m Muskaan and this is mom Divya

Proud to be called my parents’ daughter

“Rashi, can you and Tarini block print another ten bags, Meenakshi needs them by the 12th…”

The first block printed cloth bag…

This message from Aditi, who spearheads community initiatives in our colony, popped up on a Friday afternoon in the middle of yet another webex call. The weekend ahead was chock full with chores. No I couldn’t add block printing ten bags to my already crammed list! My immediate answer was a polite no, it would not be possible sorry Aditi. I thought I had set the matter to rest there, deleting the message with a flourish.

But it was not meant to be that way. Tarini saw the response to my message and immediately knew I had let an important opportunity pass. She likes being involved in community activities, and to the extent I can, I try and involve her and myself.

What followed was a Friday afternoon lost in a cloud of smoke, if I could put it that way. She had her way and the next day we collected the bags to be painted. Arranged to get the block seals back from Amita Aunty who had kindly taught us this art. Managed to complete all ten bags by Saturday noon, amongst sundry other activities including getting 1.5 years of pending work done by the carpenter.

But in case you’re wondering what exactly this post is about, it isn’t about the beautiful art of block printing nor about community work. It’s about the lady who wanted these bags (to give her Prasad in, a wonderful idea) and how I discovered over the phone call to decide how to deliver the bags, that she had a long long association with my parents. My mom had been her daughter’s first doctor when she had landed in Delhi and my dad had fixed a badly broken arm. She almost begged that my mom come over to see the Puja she had kept in her house, even if for five minutes. This isn’t the first time this has happened, and even Amita Aunty had turned out to be my mom’s former patient.

Amita Aunty, who taught us block printing at the local park

We made our way to deliver the bags. It was an experience seeing the lovely and intricately decorated “Golu Puja” at Meenakshi’s house and we came back showered with gifts and blessings.

Golu Puja at Meenakshi’s

My point about writing this post is one, that I should perhaps not be too quick to say no. Had Tarini not forced me to do this, I may never have met Meenakshi nor discovered the connection she shares with us.

Two, very near my parents’ 51st wedding anniversary and my dad’s 79th birthday which went by this 11 October I also want to convey to my parents that I’m proud to be called their daughter.

Their lives, lived with grace and dignity, above all with honesty, may not have taken them to the pinnacle of success measured in the conventional way. But if success is a life lived for others, serving and helping them in every way, they reached way beyond. I have a rich legacy to carry forward, as you see. 😊

Red roses from a close uncle

The wondrous morning sky

Stringing together my thoughts over several days and several tweets, I put together what the morning sky has taught me:

1. Life is about surprises: The sky on no two mornings is the same. It never fails to surprise.

Same balcony, same spot, but thousands of different sky pics!

2. But only if you look: For it to really surprise you, you need to look at it with the wonder of a child.

Yet another wondrous sky

3. Impermanence adds to sweetness: The colours are ever-changing, and often ephemeral. The beauty of the sky is in its impermanence. Blink and you miss it.

Beauty in fragility
(image courtesy Ana @ANA33969822)

4. About never losing hope: The darkest nights produce the brightest stars. And even the darkest night will lead to dawn.

Hope and resilience in the sky

5. About resilience: “…the blue sky above never leaves…”

The Boy, the Mole, the Fox and the Horse by Charlie Mackesy
(thanks Michele @_naturesoul for introducing me to this series)

“Clouds come floating into my life, no longer to carry rain or usher storm, but to add colour to my sunset sky.”

Rabindranath Tagore